Parents can not condone the child’s 7 things, accounting for 4 lost! Sohu – cagliari exchange

Parents can not condone the child’s 7 things, accounting for 4 lost! – [picture] select Sohu maternal attention, let the children love to read! Method: open WeChat to add a friend to search the number to jxhuiben! Love children, is the nature of parents. This love is not only to contain the sense and wide, should be a degree of tightness, for children in the "can" and "can not" draw a clear boundary, so that their behavior rules. Learn to endure a moment of discomfort and troubles, even endure unnecessary pain, therefore, several kinds of behavior in children following, must promptly stop, must not be soft, not to become tolerant indulge — 1 pilfering give your child a pair of pocket crystal shoes, tell you that it is from my friend’s house. Picking up the. Standard practice: immediately take the child to return the goods, let him personally apologize: I’m sorry, I took your things to go home to play, and now back to you, please forgive me." With the process of "to its origin owner to admit a mistake, let the children learn. 3, the 4 year old children do not have the concept of "property" and the sense of belonging, that they like, want to be their own. In this regard, parents do not take the attitude of "never again". Remember the old saying: not good for small, small and whom not to be evil. 2 not to do the children playing in the sand, one grab a buddy toy bulldozer, failed to bite to each other’s hands. As a result, bulldozers get their hands. Standard practice: the children to bite, parents must be serious criticism, let him know that bite is wrong, has caused harm to the child, must personally apologize; at the same time, let him understand that children if you are not willing to lend themselves to play the toy, he should learn to accept this unhappy. In addition to criticism and reason, some of the punishment is essential, and will be contrary to the treatment of punishment in front of him: care and comfort the child was bitten. So that children know, attack others not only can not succeed, but also can not get any benefits, and consciously abandon aggressive behavior. 3 the sleep at 10 in the evening to go to bed, the child is the doll and plush toys booth to bed standard practice: finger wall cartoon clock, motioned for the child to go to bed time, he told the rest time to ensure that the second day to the kindergarten is not late. None of the children will go to bed on their own initiative, they never play enough. If parents allow children again and again three to sleep, regular routine and good life habit is hard to develop. Therefore, regardless of the child to find any reason, parents have to find a way to refuse. 4 see the toys on the walk in the supermarket, you refuse to buy the Bobbi doll, her daughter is tightly hold not to put, you can explain also don’t let go, also sat down on the ground. Standard practice: to show your attitude to children: do not buy toys today, because just recently bought a set of Bobbi dolls. If the children do not listen to their parents, may wish to ignore, vexatious, continue to choose other items, or pretend to go away, let it sit on the ground crying!相关的主题文章: